Dress for Success
Funeral Etiquette: What To Wear To A Funeral
Sep
Last night’s hot topic debated what’s appropriate funeral attire for women after watching Ariana Grande sing at Aretha Franklin’s, Queen of Soul, funeral in a black minidress. People reached out to ask if traditional attire is required. What is and what isn’t appropriate attire for a funeral?
Growing up the guideline was dress like you’re going to church. Times have changed, places accept more casual attire than in the past. Knowing what to wear is confusing and the guidelines are hazy.
3 Tips For Choosing Funeral Attire
1. Know the type of service and venue you’re attending. Call your contact, the church, or funeral home to inquire about the dress code. The family may request a certain color be worn to honor the deceased.
2. Rule of Thumb: People tend to wear black, conservative and neutral colors such as navy and gray in the USA. Women dress modestly yet embrace their unique style. If you’re attending a cultural ceremony, find out the details so you won’t unknowingly offend and embarrass yourself.
3. When in doubt always err on the side of caution. If you think it’s too short, tight, or cut low, don’t wear it. Opt to dress up rather than casual. It’s better to be overdressed than underdressed. Your attire should not be a distraction.
Here’s a useful guide I created to help you choose the appropriate clothing for a funeral.
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